A Final Thanks To A Classy First Lady


President Barack Obama and First Lady Michelle Obama have less than two weeks left before they return to their private lives.  They have both brought a level of dignity to the White House that has not been seen for many decades, and theirs is the first administration in a long time with not so much as a breath of scandal.  No affairs, no accusations of wrongdoing, no errant children, just respect and dignity.  Yesterday, Ms. Obama gave her final speech as First Lady, speaking at an event honouring the 2017 School Counselor of the Year, and as always, it was filled with encouragement and hope.  I share part of that speech here:

“And as I end my time in the White House, I can think of no better message to send our young people in my last official remarks as First Lady. So for all the young people in this room and those who are watching, know that this country belongs to you — to all of you, from every background and walk of life. If you or your parents are immigrants, know that you are part of a proud American tradition — the infusion of new cultures, talents and ideas, generation after generation, that has made us the greatest country on earth.

If your family doesn’t have much money, I want you to remember that in this country, plenty of folks, including me and my husband — we started out with very little. But with a lot of hard work and a good education, anything is possible — even becoming President. That’s what the American Dream is all about.

If you are a person of faith, know that religious diversity is a great American tradition, too. In fact, that’s why people first came to this country — to worship freely. And whether you are Muslim, Christian, Jewish, Hindu, Sikh — these religions are teaching our young people about justice, and compassion, and honesty. So I want our young people to continue to learn and practice those values with pride. You see, our glorious diversity — our diversities of faiths and colors and creeds — that is not a threat to who we are, it makes us who we are. So the young people here and the young people out there: Do not ever let anyone make you feel like you don’t matter, or like you don’t have a place in our American story — because you do. And you have a right to be exactly who you are. But I also want to be very clear: This right isn’t just handed to you. No, this right has to be earned every single day. You cannot take your freedoms for granted. Just like generations who have come before you, you have to do your part to preserve and protect those freedoms. And that starts right now, when you’re young.

Right now, you need to be preparing yourself to add your voice to our national conversation. You need to prepare yourself to be informed and engaged as a citizen, to serve and to lead, to stand up for our proud American values and to honor them in your daily lives. And that means getting the best education possible so you can think critically, so you can express yourself clearly, so you can get a good job and support yourself and your family, so you can be a positive force in your communities.

And when you encounter obstacles — because I guarantee you, you will, and many of you already have — when you are struggling and you start thinking about giving up, I want you to remember something that my husband and I have talked about since we first started this journey nearly a decade ago, something that has carried us through every moment in this White House and every moment of our lives, and that is the power of hope — the belief that something better is always possible if you’re willing to work for it and fight for it.

It is our fundamental belief in the power of hope that has allowed us to rise above the voices of doubt and division, of anger and fear that we have faced in our own lives and in the life of this country. Our hope that if we work hard enough and believe in ourselves, then we can be whatever we dream, regardless of the limitations that others may place on us. The hope that when people see us for who we truly are, maybe, just maybe they, too, will be inspired to rise to their best possible selves.

That’s the kind of hope that every single one of us — politicians, parents, preachers — all of us need to be providing for our young people. Because that is what moves this country forward every single day — our hope for the future and the hard work that hope inspires.

So that’s my final message to young people as First Lady. It is simple. I want our young people to know that they matter, that they belong. So don’t be afraid — you hear me, young people? Don’t be afraid. Be focused. Be determined. Be hopeful. Be empowered. Empower yourselves with a good education, then get out there and use that education to build a country worthy of your boundless promise. Lead by example with hope, never fear. And know that I will be with you, rooting for you and working to support you for the rest of my life.

And that is true I know for every person who are here — is here today, and for educators and advocates all across this nation who get up every day and work their hearts out to lift up our young people. And I am so grateful to all of you for your passion and your dedication and all the hard work on behalf of our next generation. And I can think of no better way to end my time as First Lady than celebrating with all of you.

So I want to close today by simply saying thank you. Thank you for everything you do for our kids and for our country. Being your First Lady has been the greatest honor of my life, and I hope I’ve made you proud.” 

I have said it before, and I shall say it this one last time.  First Lady Michelle Obama deserves a standing ovation from us all, for she has brought values, hope, humour, compassion, dignity and grace back to the White House.  I, for one, shall miss her.  Thank you, Ms. Obama, for all you have given us.

Full transcript of her speech and video, courtesy of Time Magazine






15 thoughts on “A Final Thanks To A Classy First Lady

  1. It saddens me that we are going from this classy First Lady and mom who is well-spoken and engaged to Trump’s third wife who’s accomplishments include modeling, posing nude and plagiarizing. She will not be engaged. She’s not even moving to the White House initially. Our only hope is that she’ll plagiarize more of Michelle O’s speeches.

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    • I fully agree! I did not mention Melania in this post because I wanted it to be a tribute to Michelle Obama, nothing more. But I agree with you. You know what I read … and I don’t know if it’s true or not, as I didn’t have the time nor the concern to bother to research … but allegedly Eric Trump said that Melania did not steal parts of Michelle O’s speech, but that it was the other way around! Give the timing, we all know that is impossible, but Eric is following in the footsteps of his father — the truth is whatever he says it is! I cringe …

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  2. Jill, she has been a very classy person. When I hear negatives about her, I ask why? The arguments usually are some form of transferring their dislike of her husband to her. That does not hold up. This presidency has been scandal free, so that shows evidence of their character. And, they raised wonderful young girls and almost women under intense scrutiny. Keith

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    • Me too. I was thinking about it as I watched portions of her speech. She is so filled with humour, grace, dignity … such a wonderful wife, First Lady and mother … that narrows it down, I think, to a matter of race. I hate to see racism as the motive behind every tree, but in this case, I just cannot conceive of any other reason at all! I admit, I teared up more than once, just reading her speech and thinking about all the times she has brought a smile to my face.

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        • I don’t know either, and we probably never will, but I cannot see anything else it could be. I mean, look at the whole thing with her wearing a sleeveless dress and the uproar that caused. Jackie Kennedy, loved by ALL, wore sleeveless dresses frequently. And now, look at the picture of a nearly nude soon-to-be First Lady, holding a gun! Yet the masses love her. But oh wait … she is white. Stepping down from my soapbox now … sorry … I get carried away sometimes. 🙂

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  3. Dear Jill,
    It has been a pleasure to watch the president’s family in the White House and how they have managed their lives even when they were under attack by republicans who are ideology driven.

    I loved it when Mrs. Michelle Obama talked about taking the high road when others go low. This family will be missed.

    Hugs, Gronda

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    • I agree! And the Obama daughters are delightful! The Obamas have managed to keep them mostly out of the limelight, which I applaud, and yet what we do see of them, they are such well adapted young ladies. I’m with you … that one quote sticks with me, and I find myself using it rather frequently. Hugs!!!

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