The Women Have Spoken …

I did not set out to write another post at this time about the Women’s March on Washington.  I was thrilled with the turnout, thrilled that there were marches not only in Washington, but all over the nation, and in fact the globe!  I was vastly relieved that there were no arrests and no injuries.  All in all, I felt good about the march, but did not see a reason to write another post about it just yet, thinking I would wait a week or two and see if there were any results, fallout, or anything else in response.  But today, I saw and read some things that simply sickened me, and the angrier I became, the more my fingers itched and my brain refused to concentrate on the post I was writing about the European response to having Trump at the helm.  So alas, I am once again, writing about the Women’s March, or rather the responses to it.

The march had a purpose.  Not, perhaps, quite as clear-cut and well-defined as the March on Washington on 28 August 1963, but it had purpose.  It had many purposes, but its main purpose was to send a message … a message to the current resident of the Oval Office, his minions, and Congress that we are not going to be silent.  We are not going to stand calmly aside while you implement policies that rob access to healthcare from some 20 million people.  We will not sit down and shut up while you turn over our natural resources and wildlife to the states to lease to miners, drillers and loggers.  We will not calmly sit knitting by the fire while you reverse hard-won civil rights legislation, including same-sex marriage.  We will yell loud and long if you fill your cabinet with the likes of Betsy DeVos, Jeff Sessions, and Scott Pruitt.  We will do whatever it takes to get our message out if you follow through with your threat to use OUR money to build a wall on the Mexican border – a wall that will hurt the U.S. economy far more than that of Mexico!  Or if you try to deport our Muslim friends from this nation that was founded on the principles that you are denying to so many. The message is:  we will be watching, we have a voice, we have power, and we will use it.

Apparently there are a lot of men and women out there who see this march as being about a single issue:  abortion.  Yes, the threat to overturn Roe v Wade is one the many portions of Trump’s platform that we protest, but it is only one of many.

Yesterday, the day after the march, social media was filled with anti-marcher memes and posts.  Mostly from women … some basically just stating their opinion opposing the march, others being downright rude.  This one, in particular, made me see red:


It is difficult, if not impossible, to discern what is real and what is faux news, thus I choose to err on the side of caution and will not post any comments that I have not been able to verify.  That said, here are some of the comments people have made in response to the march:

  • “Don’t include me in your crazy rhetoric. As a woman, this does not represent me. I am not an extremist or a feminist. No one is stealing any of my rights or beliefs. I am not a victim. I am not oppressed.”
  • “The election is over but not the fight against America. This march, which is organized and funded by George Soros, Planned Parenthood and other donors, is getting local and worldwide media attention. Their website ( says this march is the rise of the woman and is the rise of the nation. Let me say loud and clear, they do not represent me. This march spits in my face and the faces of the women who voted for Donald J. Trump.” (Note: Soros and Planned Parenthood are mentioned as financiers of the march in multiple media sites that are known for their faux news, such as Breitbart, but I find no references on legitimate news outlets, so I question the veracity of this statement)  
  • “Why do any women need this march? This is America, I have everything I need, and if you don’t, it’s your own fault, and marching won’t fix that for you.”
  • “Why protest, what are you protesting against? I have every right my husband has. This is a bunch of angry women who don’t have a good man in their life.”
  • “I think they were marching to show that they oppose our new president BECAUSE of the comments he made to Billy Bush. I saw signs reflecting that, in the march. Also they do not like his manner and feel he is not qualified. ALSO they like Hillary and can’t BELIEVE she did not win. Also, celebrities ( Rosie, Whoopie, Steven Colbert, Meryl, etc) get them all fired up and ready to take on the government. This is what I think is going on.”

And then there was this …


Enough said.  Two points here.  First, as I mentioned above, the march was not simply, nor even primarily, about the issue of pro-choice.  It was about so much more, and I suspect that those who speak against the march are aware of that, but the pro-choice, or abortion, issue is the only one they feel strongly enough to argue.  Second, it is selfish, narrow-minded, and arrogant to assume that simply because your life is fine and dandy, everyone’s is.  Many women in this country are struggling to put food on the table and a roof over their heads for their children.  Many cannot afford to take their children to a doctor if they lose their healthcare through ACA.  Many people in this nation will suffer under Trump’s proposed policies, through no fault of their own! It is about the nation, our future, about equal rights for ALL people.

Although we cannot have exact attendance information, all indicators, from aerial photos, Metro rider statistics, etc., indicate that the turnout for the Women’s March far exceeded that of the inauguration. I think it speaks volumes that the march was peaceful, there was no violence, no arrests … this tells me that these women really wanted to make their voices heard through peaceful protest and not muddy the waters with scandal that would be seized upon in the press and their communities.  Women around the nation sent a message, not only to Donald Trump, but also to Congress.  They should be praised and respected, not criticized and mocked.  A special thanks to our fellow-blogger, Gronda Morin for participating in the D.C. march and representing us all! Hats off to every person, women and men alike, who stood and marched to send the message that We The People have a voice and are not afraid to use it.  doffing-hat

27 thoughts on “The Women Have Spoken …

  1. Perhaps those women who tweeted were paid Russian trolls. Could happen. LOL I don’t know why some women have to disrespect other women like that. The marches were beautiful and historic. Trump didn’t win the presidency. It’s not a prize. He was hired to do a job, and we are his bosses. It’s up to us to tell him what we want, and his campaign led us to believe he doesn’t understand women in the slightest. Now we’ve said clearly what we want, and he’s still confused? The march is pointless? No. He just doesn’t want to hear what women want, unless they are related to him. They are the only women who matter to him. He disregards us at his peril. We are America. America would not exist without its women.

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  2. As you know I was at a rally (we couldn’t march) in Liverpool where several hundred people had a good time listening to very few speeches over a rubbish megaphone – and we clapped for a minute to send off the Washington march in a spirit of international community. It was heartwarming. And jolly cold!
    Abortion was most definitely not the issue of the day. I would not have been there had it been solely about abortion, I was there to say, we are women, we are equal, we are not pussies, we are watching and we are not passive bystanders. Nor was it about contesting an election that has happened.
    As for those who criticise us for not ‘doing’ something, I am sure I am not the only one in the many crowds around the world who has also done her bit (or his bit) for the likes of Amnesty or cancer charities or CND or Friends of the Earth or Greenpeace – any one or more of a great diversity of campaigning organisations and of course political parties.
    I absolutely loved that this was quirky, good humoured, friendly and happy. As I wrote in my own post on the subject, a song came to my head during the day, Van Morrison singing about ‘one hand clapping’ – because of our minute’s clap – and it led me through Google to Zen koans and further… if we each of us change our behaviour towards one other for their and our benefit (over-simplifying here for brevity) it can perhaps change that person. If we do it as groups and nations…. Be the change!
    Thanks for this, I was seething at things crawling online, you have done the arguing for me!

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    • I love your take on the rally … fun, quirky, etc. And yes, most who take time from their busy lives to go to events for causes they believe in have done many other things to support those causes and others. Those of us who cannot actually ‘do’ much, give in other ways, be it financial support, writing to gain awareness, or something else. Those people who criticize live in narrow worlds where they are insulated from the rest of the world and do not with to have the rest of the world invade their consciousness. I think. Anyway, I’m glad to have done your arguing for you! You did the important work! Thank you for your support!

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  3. If it is any consolation, at least here in Europe it was mostly reported as what it was: to show the trumpet that he does not have the stage for himself, that there are still a lot of people who believe in a diverse, open, equal America. Actually here in the Netherlands there were a couple of smaller marches to show support. 🙂

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  4. Reblogged this on It Is What It Is and commented:
    The ‘backlash … because there has to be some after such a successful gathering!!
    ‘Apparently there are a lot of men and women out there who see this march as being about a single issue: abortion. Yes, the threat to overturn Roe v Wade is one the many portions of Trump’s platform that we protest, but it is only one of many.’

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  5. Dear Jill,

    I am with you and I am furious. This March focused just like you said, in sending a message that we are a force to be reckoned with and we will not go quietly into our proper places.While having rights over our own bodies was one theme, it was one out of so many.

    While you will not say that the above is representative of fake news, I will. I was there.

    There was one group of pro life protesters present during the march but they were treated exceptionally well. People were saying thank you for coming..etc. Nothing untoward!! It was as collegiate a gathering of huge numbers of peoples, as is possible to have.

    Thanks for not letting those naysayers get away with this underhanded tactic.

    Hugs, Gronda

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    • The naysayers are narrow-minded people, content in their own little worlds, not wishing to look outward at the rest of the world and not wanting the rest of the world to intrude on their sensibilities. Sigh. On the one hand, I am encouraged by seeing so many speaking out for justice, but on the other hand, the naysayers seem to be gaining ground.

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  6. Well thought out. I’m not sure what to say to someone who just doesn’t “get it.” You did it better than I would have! I applaud the marchers and those who keep reminding us that there are voices out there that need to be heard. We will need to continue to hear those voices as the days darken in the months ahead.

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    • Yes, to hear them and to be them (the voices). I wonder if those who don’t “get it” really don’t get it, or simply don’t want to get it. If you realize there is a problem, then you have to get up and do something to try to fix the problem, but if you can keep your blinders on and not see the problem ….


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  8. Yeah there are all kinds of voices out there. The ones that really got noticed were in the protests. Some of the younger generation doesn’t understand if they did not have to fight for it. There are many things we do not understand until we are much older. The protest was a beautiful thing, very exciting and energizing to happen all around the world. 🙂

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