Last night I went with a light-hearted song, “You Can’t Hurry Love”, by the Supremes and also Phil Collins. Tonight, I’m feeling more solemn, more … I’m looking at this nation, and others … Canada and the UK specifically … and I’m not liking what I see. A woman posted on Facebook that “We should be better than this … God wants us to be better than this”. Now, I’m not religious, but I thought her heart was at least in the right place and her comment in no way offended me. However, she was slammed in comments by people being rude, crass, and obnoxious toward her. And I started thinking … is this really who we are these days? Can we not just agree to disagree, can we no longer tolerate those whose views do not match our own? Whatever happened to “live and let live”?
I typically do not use the music posts to make a statement, though on occasion I do. Tonight is one such occasion. Les Crane’s Desiderata is a song that makes a statement … a simple, no-brainer sort of statement, but one that I think maybe we all should hear.
The song is based on a poem by Max Ehrmann that was written in the early 1920s, but not published until 1948, three years after his death. The poem was about the search for happiness in life. In the 1960s, the poem made its rounds as “anonymous” ancient wisdom – it was widely reprinted because most people assumed it was in the public domain. Crane read the poem on a street poster (which stated the words “Found in Old Saint Paul’s Church, Baltimore, dated 1692”) and decided to record it.
The song reached either #6 or #7 in the UK, depending on who you believe, #4 in Canada, and #8 in the U.S.
Desiderata
Les Crane
Desiderata. Desiderata. Desiderata.
Go placidly amid the noise and haste,
and remember what peace there may be in silence.
As far as possible without surrender,
Be on good terms with all persons.
Speak your truth quietly and clearly, and listen to others –
Even the dull and ignorant, they too have their story.
Avoid loud and aggressive persons – they are vexations to the spirit.
If you compare yourself with others, you may become vain and bitter,
For always there will be greater and lesser persons than yourself.
Enjoy your achievements as well as your plans.
Keep interested in your own career –
However humble, it is a real possession in the changing fortunes of time.
Exercise caution in your business affairs,
for the world is full of trickery.
But let this not blind you to what virtue there is.
Many persons strive for high ideals,
and everywhere life is full of heroism.
Be yourself.
Especially do not feign affection, neither be cynical about love.
For in the face of all aridity and disenchantment,
It is as perenial as the grass.
Take kindly the council of the years,
Gracefully surrendering the things of youth.
Nurture strength of spirit to shield you in sudden misfortune,
But do not distress yourself with imaginings –
Many fears are borne of fatigue and loneliness.
Beyond a wholesome discipline, be gentle with yourself.
You are a child of the universe.
No less than the trees and the stars, you have a right to be here.
And whether or not it is clear to you,
No doubt the universe is unfolding as it should.
Therefore, be at peace with God, whatever you conceive him to be.
And whatever your labors and aspirations,
in the noisy confusion of life,
Keep peace with your soul.
With all its sham, drudgery, and broken dreams,
it is still a beautiful world.
Be careful. Strive to be happy.
Songwriters: Jonathan Douglas / Soren Rasted / M Ehrmanns
Desiderata lyrics © Warner Chappell Music, Inc
I don’t normally comment on your music posts Jill. I tend not to listen to a lot of music (silence is my preferred soul-soother or meditation music if I need to blot out noise), but this is a different music post, and yes, we do need to become kinder and more tolerent. The opposite is actually happening out there, and growing. Like rg, I do not know where humanity is headed, but the path looks dark to me, and I am dragging my feet, looking for a way out. Where is that path of enlightenment, and compassion?
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I find that silence leaves the door open for all sorts of thoughts, so even if I’m not actively listening to music, I have some playing in my head. You’re right … the opposite is actually happening and … I’m so tired of it. People seem to have forgotten how to be kind and compassionate. Perhaps it has always been so and I just tuned it out … I don’t know, but today the hate seems overwhelming. Sigh.
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I still semi-believed in a destined universe when I first read this on the same edition of the poster I guess Crane read it on. Three years ago I still believed the universe was going somewhere, not necessarily determined, but with a more or less straight line destination. Now, I hope, but I believe nothing. I am a child of the universe, decidedly. As are the trees and the stars. But the way the universe is unfolding, there is great doubt it will ever get where I used to think it was going.
Strangely, I just played this song the other day. I hoped it would help me set myself right.
It did not!
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I share your sentiment, my friend. Tonight, I can only conclude that we are, in the words of Barry McGuire, ‘on the eve of destruction’.
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And standing on the brink of extinction.
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Yep, that too.
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Wise foreboding yet hopeful poetry delivered with the power of Gospel singing! Very nice message, I like it. 🙂
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M’lord!! What a beautiful song … so many memories!! If only we could apply it now!! 😢😢
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Why can’t we … apply it now, that is? Seems to be a timeless sentiment … perhaps we could start a movement! Something has to give before we all end up killing each other. 😥
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Excellent choice, Jill.
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Thank you!
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I get goosebumps thinking about that song Jill. Wonderful choice for the times. I am devastated for you about your trees, so sad. Big hugs and lots of love. Mary xxx
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I thought it fit the times perfectly, too. Sadly. Thanks for the hugs and love … much-needed and much-appreciated! Love ‘n hugs back at you, my dear friend!
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‘However, she was slammed in comments by people being rude, crass, and obnoxious toward her.’
Now this is why your truly goes a’ hunting on Face Book and gives them a taste of their own medicine….
Anyway, deep breath, good choice Jill.
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Facebook is a black hole bottomless pit, engage with it and find yourself in a self imposed hell. Why would any sane person “debate” on such a platform full of trolls, bots, pompous idealogues who belittle and argue mindlessly. There’s no meaningful communication except for connecting with friends and family. Even then politics get in the way, sad indeed.
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I did a bit of it … told several people to “live and let live”, and that in my book, they owed her an apology. And of course they all rushed right out to apologize after seeing the error of their ways … not! Sigh. I’m pretty tired of the hate and vitriol these days, Roger. Pretty damn tired of it. 😥
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That’s why I take personal pot-shots at them Jill. See how they like it. I make no apologies.😤
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I do too, and I also make no apologies, but I can’t help but wonder if that doesn’t lower me to their level somehow. Sigh. It’s not easy sometimes to know the right thing to do, and harder still sometimes to do the right thing, even when you know it. Sigh.
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Taste of their own medicine Jill.
The other approach is to throw them off by suddenly going wacky on them. The angrier they are the less able they are to deal with Humour.
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For a minute there, I thought you were going to say “throw them off a tall building” and I was liking that idea! I’m considering infiltrating one of their right-wing sites and injecting a few of my posts here and there, poke them a bit. Just because … I’m not already stressed enough! 😉
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Ah-ha ‘The Girl Who Kicked the Hornet’s Nest’
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Exactly!!! I knew you’d understand!
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I was going to replace ‘next’ with another word, but thought it best to maintain some civility this time 😉
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I don’t know what you expect today but I always liked this one and even tried to be like it. My God would have been proud of me,
Cwtch
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I don’t expect anything … was just hoping to inspire people to be a little kinder, a bit more thoughtful of others today. I’m so tired of all the vitriol and hate in the world. 😥
Cwtch
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Sorry, I meant whether you expected me to like or to ignore this one,
Cwtch
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Oh … I figured you would like it, as you’ve mentioned it before as being one you liked.
Cwtch
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Hello Jill. Interesting. Far different than your normal song posts I think. Hugs
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Yes … my music posts generally reflect my mood of the moment. Hugs!
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