I was scouring my usual sources for a few good people to write about today and I did find some, but they will have to wait until next week’s post, for during my search something popped up on my radar and by the time I finished reading it, I had tears and knew this would be my good people story this week.
We all knew that Fred Rogers, star of Mister Rogers’ Neighborhood, was a good guy. But this one story shows just how good, just how caring an individual he was.
It all started in early 1987 when …
A mother called into PBS, asking if Mr. Rogers could send an autograph to her daughter. She was suffering from seizures and set to have brain surgery. When Fred Rogers heard about it, he flew to see her in the hospital rather than merely sending an autograph.
When Beth Usher was in kindergarten she had her first seizure. Doctors couldn’t find the problem and sent Beth home.
A few days later, Beth had another seizure. Then another. And another. Eventually, she had around 100 seizures a day. She was diagnosed with Rasmussen’s encephalitis, a rare inflammatory neurological disease that only affects one hemisphere of the brain.
Miraculously, during the 30 minutes when Mister Rogers’ Neighborhood aired, Beth never had a seizure.
“I found his voice comforting. I felt like he was talking to me and nobody else.”
Before surgery that involved removing parts of Beth’s brain affected by the disease, her mother Kathy reached out to the Mister Rogers Neighborhood studio and spoke with the secretary, explaining the situation and asking if she could get a signed copy of Mr. Rogers’ picture for Beth. Less than an hour later, the secretary called back with a special message.
“Will you be home this evening at 7? Fred would like to call and speak with Beth,” the secretary told Kathy. “He called, and I said to Beth, ‘Beth… there’s a friend on the phone for you.'”
Beth spent over an hour on the phone with Mr. Rogers.
“I told him things I hadn’t told my mom or dad. I told him about the surgery and how I thought I might die. It was like talking to an old friend.”
On February 4, 1987, Beth underwent a 12-hour procedure to remove the left hemisphere of her brain. Initially after surgery, she was fine. But things took an unexpected turn, and she slipped into a coma.
“Mr. Rogers would call the hospital every day to check up on me. When he found out I wasn’t improving, he decided to make a trip.”
Beth’s family and nurses stood in the doorway watching as Rogers removed his puppets from his case.
“He gave Beth her own private show,” said Beth’s mother.
Shortly after Mr. Rogers visit, Beth did wake, surrounded by friends.
When Mr. Rogers called that day, Kathy told him the good news.
“He said, ‘Praise God’.”
Mr. Rogers and Beth’s friendship continued through the years. He always called Beth on her birthday until his death in 2003.
In this age where it seems that people think it is ‘cool’ to curse and act stupid on television, Mr. Rogers was the gold standard for children’s television. So much so that the story goes that his car was once stolen, but when the thieves saw the news coverage, they promptly returned the car with a note reading, “If we’d known it was yours, we never would have taken it.”
Rogers was awarded the Presidential Medal of Freedom in 2002, and one year later, after Rogers passed away at the age of 74, the U.S. Senate approved a resolution to commemorate his life. It read, in part …
“Through his spirituality and placid nature, Mr. Rogers was able to reach out to our nation’s children and encourage each of them to understand the important role they play in their communities and as part of their families. More importantly, he did not shy away from dealing with difficult issues of death and divorce but rather encouraged children to express their emotions in a healthy, constructive manner, often providing a simple answer to life’s hardships.”
Who knows how many lives he touched in such a positive way that those people grew into ‘good people’ themselves? So, although I’m ‘a day late and dollar short’ as my grandpa used to say, I say Mr. Rogers deserves to be our ‘good people’ for this week!
LOVE this tribute that is so richly deserved! ❤
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He was certainly one great man, wasn’t he? We need more like him!
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I knew he was a great man who was the role model of kindness, yet I didn’t know about this story of Beth. Wow! Thank you, Jill.
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Yes, like you, I knew he was a good man, but I didn’t know the half of it!
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🙂
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I read of this true Gentleman (in both senses of the words) back sometime, somewhere on WP. Thanks for reminding me Jill.
A wonderful man indeed.
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I believe I have highlighted him before, perhaps in another good people post … he is certainly deserving of it! I wish you could have seen his program … he had a way about him.
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We could do with him coming back
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There are so many I’d love to see come back.
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This is one of the most moving songs of our lifetime, my friend. I have played it on my music posts before, but … after just now listening again, I’ve got to play it again. It never fails to bring a tear. We were so lucky to have them, but we need some new ones like them. Thanks for the timely reminder, dear friend.
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It was a good one, apparently Dion went into a sort of temporary hiatus after recording that, seems he was so moved he felt he couldn’t do any better.
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I didn’t know that … how sad for Dion as well as the rest of us.
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😢
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It is really heart touching, and one is seeing again, only some simple good words can work wonders. xx Michael
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He was a good man, for sure. Did you ever see him on television? My UK readers say they never did, so I’m guessing he wasn’t aired in Germany, either? xx
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I also had not seen him on TV. Here in Germany it seems we only get educational or education related information only from German professionals. You understand that culture is the first way to take over a country. Lol xx Michael
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Ah yes … and teach them while they are still young enough to be indoctrinated. Mister Rogers was great … he talked to children about such tough subjects as death, divorce, and other things that parents often have difficulty addressing. xx
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I will look for some videos of him. Yes, childhood can be horrible, if indoctrination shall take place. xx Michael
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Yes, there are many on YouTube. See if you can view this one, for it exemplifies his role in children’s lives, the lessons he taught without being ‘preachy’. https://youtu.be/ObHNWh3F5fQ
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Darn it Jill. Don’t you know it is hard to read through teary eyes. What a terrific story. Thanks for sharing yet one more womderful Mister Rogers story. Keith
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Oh yes, I know, my friend! I had the same problem! There are so many wonderful stories about Fred Rogers out there … I wish that people like that could just live forever!
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I’d never heard of him this side of the pond but what a remarkable individual he was. Imagine what our real neighbourhoods would be like.if each of us offered, as a matter of course just one good deed to another person. During the Pandemic we’ve seen just that with people looking out for each other. and offering help with shopping or just conversation to those isolated within our communities.
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I didn’t realize that he wasn’t broadcast in the UK, but I see now that none of my UK readers are familiar with him. To some extent we saw that during the pandemic, but then … there were the anti-mask gang and the equally vicious anti-vaxxers, so I guess it was a mixed bag … as are humans.
Cwtch
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Nah, ah, not me. Never the heard of the guy, nor that show, until just now. (Thanks for the education!)
We could do with more like him.
(I love the ‘three ways to ultimate success’ in your post header!)
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Until today, I guess I just assumed that Mister Rogers’ Neighborhood was broadcast in most of the west! My bad! You would have enjoyed him … even I did as an adult! Yeah, I liked that one too … says it all!
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Thanks for sharing this story Jill. Beautiful
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I’m very glad you enjoyed it!
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👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼
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Many thanks, Ned!!!
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Sounds like he was an all round good guy, exactly what you want on daytime children’s tv.
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He certainly was! With each show, he taught a value, but did so without being preachy … kids didn’t even realize they were learning morals & values!
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