I’ve been writing a lot lately, it seems, about gun violence, school shootings, mass shootings, et al. Violence in America seems to be the overriding theme of late. On Sunday, I reported on three mass shootings that took place on Saturday. Today, I’m sad to tell you that there were three more on Sunday, taking another 5 lives and injuring 7 more people.
- St. Louis, Missouri – 2 killed, 2 injured
- Newark, New Jersey – 1 killed, 3 injured
- Frostburg, Maryland – 2 killed, 2 injured
I’m sure many useless ‘thoughts and prayers’ have been conveyed by legislators around the nation.
But it isn’t only gun violence, though that is the sort that gets the most attention, for an AR-15 assault rifle can mow down hundreds of people within a minute or two, and guns are the scourge of this nation, but other forms of violence have been duly noted this past weekend.
There was the case of the homeless man, Jordan Neely, murdered on the subway in New York City by a complete stranger who thought choking him to death was the answer to the homeless man’s mental health crisis. And then, there was Brownsville, Texas, where the driver of an SUV plowed into a group of migrants at a bus stop, killing eight people and injuring at least 10 others. Why?
The details are irrelevant to this conversation, but the why question is the point. Whether guns, a chokehold, a vehicular attack, or just a verbal confrontation in a store … WHY is the United States plagued by violence? WHY do we feel unsafe going into a grocery store, a church or mosque, a mall, or a movie theater? I only go about once a month to our local Barnes & Noble bookstore, and I feel relatively safe there, for most gun nuts have less than zero interest in reading books, but even there I once saw a man bend over to get a better look at a magazine and the gun sticking out of his waistband terrified me to the point I set my books down and left the store … after informing the manager.
WHY do some in this nation think it is okay to take the life of another? WHY do we resolve our differences through violence rather than trying to find a middle ground? Let me ask you to ponder something … is your life worth more than, say, a homeless person living on the streets, begging for a bite of food? If so … WHY? Because you earn more money in your job? Because you own (or rent) a home? Because you know you won’t starve to death tomorrow? Does that really increase your value? How? Do you know for a fact that if that homeless person had been given the opportunity, he might not have gone on to … oh, I dunno … maybe find the cure for lung cancer, or a way to take the CO2 out of the atmosphere, or … become president of the United States?
Just think, my friends, what might have been if … if circumstances had been different for you. What if … your parents had died when you were young, leaving you to figure out how to survive on your own. What if … you couldn’t afford to even finish high school, let alone get a college degree? What if … you were struggling with a drug dependency, or other mental health issue? Would you want someone to take a moment out of their life to help you, or would you deserve to simply be shot, choked, or run over?
My late mother-in-law, one of the kindest people I ever knew, used to often say, “There, but for the grace of god, go I.” We would roll our eyes and tease her, but of late I’ve come to better understand. No, I don’t believe in the “grace of god” but … were it not for some set of circumstances, there we might all have ended up, with ‘there’ being homeless, a stranger in another country, poor, or just in the wrong place at the wrong time.
The level of everyday violence in the United States is more what I would expect in a third-world nation, not an industrialized, wealthy, and supposedly civilized one. It seems the first response to some insult, real or imagined, is to react violently. WHY??? Have we lost our humanity? Do we no longer see others as worthy of respect, but rather an object on which to take out our own frustrations? Has the easy access to guns contributed to making us more violent in general? Has the political turmoil and divisiveness turned us into barbaric people? Are people like Ron DeSantis, Donald Trump, Greg Abbott and more, constantly putting down migrants and LGBTQ people, telling people to “fear other”, having an effect on our low level of tolerance for those who are somehow different than us? Rather than embracing diversity, are we simply killing it?
Most importantly, how can we regain our humanity as a nation, as a people? How do we learn to try to understand other viewpoints that may not agree with our own, or to have empathy for those less fortunate than we are? If we fail to do so, we are dooming ourselves and our future generations, for this cannot continue without serious consequences.
How many will die today because of fear and intolerance?

Dana Milbank
