We have all had it happen. We write a post with the best of intentions, with no harm intended, then BAM! Out of the clear blue, commenters are blowing up our email boxes, chat pages, Facebook pages and blog comments. It can get ugly. Most of my writing is about politics, both domestic and international, and social issues such as bigotry, racism, gun regulation, education, etc. Those are the things that interest me and the areas that I have the most knowledge about. I also try to inject a humorous piece once or twice a week, because we all need to remember to take a deep breath and laugh sometimes. Of late, a large portion of my writing has pertained to the U.S. political scene, because it is an election year, and frankly the craziest one in the history of our nation. That said, it is inevitable that I will sometimes strike a nerve, step on a toe. Yesterday, I published two posts, both of which stirred volatile emotions, disrespect and the loss of at least one long-time friend, not here on WordPress, but on my Facebook page, on private chats, and via e-mail. So, I am taking this opportunity to briefly put forth my thoughts on that.
First, I do not ever write with the intention of hurting the feelings of a reader or friend. In fact, I am very cautious about that and always try to be respectful, use facts and keep emotions to a minimum. It is why I generally try to avoid religion in my writing. When I do rant, and yes, sometimes I do, I tag the post as a rant, and have even been known to put a comment on my Facebook page to that effect. Still, the nature of the topics I write about tends to be controversial. The majority of readers of this blog share many of my thoughts and beliefs, though a few do not. I welcome all comments, pro, con, or neutral, and I do try to consider all sides. That is the best I can do, folks. In the words of the immortal Popeye the Sailor Man, “I yam what I yam …”
I write about things I care about and things I believe in, and I will continue to do so. I realize I will not likely change the world, but I will not give up trying. If anybody is ever offended by what I write, I would like to hear about it, hear the other point of view, but in a calm, thoughtful and respectful manner. This election season has been divisive, and with another 90+ days is going to get a lot crazier than it already is. We each have our own ideas and opinions. When I ask a person to clarify or expound on an opinion, I do so because I am trying to understand, not because I am belittling that person. I will never intentionally belittle anybody nor hurt another person’s feelings, but inevitably it happens from time-to-time.
These are things that should go without saying, but after yesterday I thought perhaps they need to be said after all. We will never all see the world and the issues through exactly the same eyes. But there is absolutely no reason to be disrespectful, either to a blog writer or commenter. There is room for reasoned debate, for an open exchange of ideas, but only if we can talk to each other without name-calling, mud-slinging, accusations and disrespect. Again, this is more for e-mail and Facebook readers, but I just thought it was a good time to say these things. I am certain I am not the only blogger who has had similar situations. Now … back to work …