On Trust …

On Christmas Eve, Trump tweeted …Trump-tweet.pngThe reactions from ‘round the globe told the true story …

Definitiv nicht! Grüße aus Deutschland! (Translation:  Definitely not!  Greetings from Germany)

Nope

By whom?

Hahaha that was so funny with a baby president can never be respected

Ha ha, Na mate you are mistaken!

As an European, I assure you it is not

Only when the all caps unstable President is gone.

Australia says nope.

Really?  Did you resign?

Hi.  Ireland here.  Nope.

America will not be respected as long as Trump is in office. Resign.

And many more … 68,000+ comments, in fact, and as far as I could tell (obviously I did not read all 68,000!) not a single one was positive.  While I could pick Trump’s two years apart and come up with hundreds, perhaps even thousands of reasons why Trump has, in fact, cost us the respect we may have once had, in the long run it all boils down to one single word:  trust.trust-1Trust, along with respect, is the single most important element of any relationship, whether it is husband/wife, parent/child, friends, or on a grander scale leader/citizens.  Without trust, a marriage will crumble, and by the same token a nation will fail if the people cannot trust their leader and if other nations cannot trust the one.  The people of the United States cannot trust Donald Trump, nor those politicians who, elected to represent us are in fact acting in a manner contrary to our best interest.

Donald Trump has broken our trust in every conceivable way.  It’s quite an accomplishment, really, that he has not once told us the truth, has not once acted in the best interests of our nation, of our citizens, of our allies.  The odds were that he would accidentally do something right, make a true statement, somewhere along the line during his two-year tenure, but he defied the odds.

It is a terrible thing when the citizens of a country cannot trust an elected leader, and perhaps an even worse thing when no nation on earth trusts this country.  Think about that one … we have let our allies down in a number of ways, and Trump has talked down to and denigrated the leaders of many of the nations who were once our trusted friends:  Canada, Mexico, France, Germany, UK.  He allies himself, instead, with nations that we should never turn our back on:  Russia and Turkey.

Trust.  It is earned.  Or not.  Trust can take years to be built and strengthened and can be destroyed by sometimes a single lie.  How many lies has Trump told?  Last I heard, based on a couple of different fact-checkers, he had misled or outright lied to the American people more than 5,000 times … in under two years!  Must be some sort of a record.

Today, a large part of the government is shut down because Trump lied about his “big, beautiful wall” that “Mexico will pay for”.  Those of us who are capable of coherent thought knew that Mexico was never going to pay for the wall, but Trump kept saying it and his followers kept believing.  And now, he is asking us to pay for the wall that most of us do not want and for which there is no need.

Trust.  It is so easily broken.  Trump broke the trust of our allies when he announced he would pull the U.S. out of the Paris Accord.  He further broke their trust when he failed to renew the Iran nuclear agreement.  He has denigrated our allies and NATO.  And now … he is pulling out of Syria and Afghanistan in a move that will further de-stabilize the Middle East and leave our allies to try to keep the peace.

No.  America is not “respected again”.  We have less respect now than … perhaps ever in the history of our nation.  We broke the trust of the rest of the world, and Trump has broken our trust.

“The glue that holds all relationships together–including the relationship between the leader and the led–is trust, and trust is based on integrity.” –Brian Tracy

“Leadership requires five ingredients–brains, energy, determination, trust, and ethics. The key challenges today are in terms of the last two–trust and ethics.” –Fred Hilmer

Facebook RX

Okay, folks … I want you to be sure that you are sitting down for this one.  Sitting?  Good.  Now, take your left hand and firmly cup your jaw so that it cannot fall to the floor.  Ready?

Facebook had plans to take health records – such as a patient’s age, prescriptions and number of hospital visits – and link it to their Facebook data. Facebook had already approached hospitals and health organizations with the idea, touting that it could (somehow?) help improve patient care.  “For example, the Facebook data might reveal that a patient did not have many friends or did not receive many messages, so might need a nurse to visit them at home. It might also reveal that a patient did not speak English as their first language, which would help the hospital plan the person’s care.”  Pardon, but wouldn’t the hospital already be aware that the patient does not speak English???

EXCUSE ME?!?!?!!  Has Mark Zuckerberg and his gang never heard of a little thing we have here called HIPAA?  Back in the day (1996 and after) “bean-counter Jill” was responsible for paying all the company employees medical premiums.  I did not have access to their medical records, but simply because I paid their premiums, by law I had to take some 30 hours of HIPAA training so that I would understand patient privacy laws!  I have since forgotten more than I knew, but having a daughter who is an RN, one thing I do know, and that is that patient information is to be strictly guarded, and even a family member may not gain access to it without the express, written consent of the patient.  But Facebook, the company who allowed the data from some 87 million users to be breached and harvested, might have gained access to our medical information???

Cathleen Gates, from the American College of Cardiology, said it had been “engaged in discussions with Facebook” concerning the use of anonymized data to further scientific research. Facebook said the work had “not progressed past the planning phase” and said it had “not received, shared or analysed anyone’s data”.

The plan has been put on hold indefinitely, given that Facebook is currently under intense fire for its ties to Cambridge Analytica and the date breaches that occurred during the 2016 election.  Now, I ask you, if Facebook couldn’t even protect our ‘name, rank & serial number’, do you really want them to know about your latest gall bladder surgery, miscarriage or toenail fungus medication?

Facebook says the project is on ‘hiatus’ while they focus on their latest trials and tribulations, but the mere fact that this project was even conceived of and apparently taken seriously by at least some hospitals and medical organizations, that medical facilities were considering contributing our private data, is highly disturbing!  More than once in the past year, I have considered quitting Facebook for a myriad of reasons, but have always stopped short, for it is the best means I have for staying in touch with friends, nieces and nephews who live hundreds of miles away.  But at this latest, at the very thought that Facebook might have attempted such an invasion of our privacy, I am seriously re-considering.

One question I have … Facebook says it asked the hospitals to share only “anonymized” data, but they would then match it to specific users.  Obviously, if they would be able to match it to a specific user, it wasn’t to be anonymized after all.  Facebook says the data would have been used only for research conducted by the medical community. Mmm hmmm. 🙄   And I’ve got a great little bridge for sale in Brooklyn, too.

Trust, folks, is a funny thing.  It can take years and years of hard work, whether we are talking about a relationship between two people, or between a business and its customers, to build the walls of trust.  And with just one breach, a single lie, the walls can come crumbling down.  Facebook has lost the public trust, and at best, it may take them a decade or better to re-build it, if it can even be rebuilt.  For me, the medical community lost my trust years ago, but with HIPAA, I at least felt my personal/medical information was secure.  Apparently, once again, I was wrong.


Note to Readers:  Just as I finished this post and was about to schedule it for this morning, I realized that it would be Saturday morning.  I haven’t the energy to write another tonight, so we will have Saturday Surprise on Sunday this week!